"Because here’s the thing about realizing you’re into girls. Hardly anyone I know has ever said, “Am I gay?” in the same way they say, “Hey, do you know what the weather’s supposed to be like tomorrow?” Like they just need to figure out how to dress for the occasion. No, when most people ask, “Am I gay?” they ask it with the kind of urgency they would usually reserve for things like, “Do I strap this parachute to my back and jump from this free falling airplane or do I nose dive into the ocean and hope the sharks don’t eat my remains? SINK OR SWIM? LIVE OR DIE? QUENCH THE FIRE OR BURN ALIVE?” It feels so urgent, and the reason it feels so urgent is because you’re probably not just asking, “Hey, do I want to make out with other girls?”
 
You’re also probably asking: What the hell are my parents going to say when I tell them I want to kiss other girls? And my friends and my co-workers and my classmates and everyone at my family reunion? And what’s that girl going to say when I tell her I want to kiss her? And how is my life ever going to be OK, and how can I go on being the same, and am I the same, and what else do I not know about what’s alive inside me? And who will still love me and who will start hating me, and is God involved, or the government maybe, and what if it’s only one girl I want to kiss, and how do I label myself and must I label myself, and what if I change my mind and, really, what if I do burn alive?"

- Heather Hogan

 

dead-pendragon:

heterophilia:

Thinking youre attractive but having a lot of insecurities is like having a crush on yourself but not knowing if you like yourself back.

SOMEONE SAID IT

Tegan and Sara win Pop Album of the Year for ‘Heartthrob’ at the 2014 Juno Awards

(Source: sloanfuckingsabbith)

It’s so strange that autumn is so beautiful; yet everything is dying.

Unknown (via wallsinstead-ofbridges)

(Source: impactings)

"Some are born with busts, some are born with butts, but whatever makes you feel confident and like loving yourself more, be proud. I’m all for it. ”

(Source: missyperegrym)

me: *sniffs air*

me: ah september

me: the time where bugs die

me: and tv shows gradually return from hiatus

me: aaah

Getting used to the curly summer hair. 

Getting used to the curly summer hair. 

die-young-andd-save-yourself:

NEVER put people down for being excited about a new song or album their favorite band puts out. Sometimes music is the only thing people have to look forward to or keep them going in life. Music is some peoples vice in life.